Achielles34
Don Juan
Hi, I'm from university of michigan. I almost finished reading "the game" quite the eye opener. Let's get a group started...any DJs in Ann Arbor?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ann Arbor, MI
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
MassiveSquirrel
Don Juan
I'm in the metro area.
DJbootcamper
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also from metro, Livonia to be exact
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Achielles34
Don Juan
That's quite alright
Crossboss,
That's alright, I'm thinking about sarging different locations, UofM diag, malls, clubs, etc, at least once a week. Cafe and I did one round in the diag a few weeks ago, I'm thinking of doing this more consistently, helping each other out, and really stepping up our games in next 2 months.
Crossboss,
That's alright, I'm thinking about sarging different locations, UofM diag, malls, clubs, etc, at least once a week. Cafe and I did one round in the diag a few weeks ago, I'm thinking of doing this more consistently, helping each other out, and really stepping up our games in next 2 months.
Achielles34
Don Juan
this weekend
Let's meet up this Sat around 1pm in the diag if u can make it. I'm going to give cafenoir a call also. Drop me a private message with your phone #.
Let's meet up this Sat around 1pm in the diag if u can make it. I'm going to give cafenoir a call also. Drop me a private message with your phone #.
dreamxhenry
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Holy sh*T!!!!Guys im in Michigan as well,im in Lansing,Michigan but were you guys at anin Ann Arbor i\'ll defintely come with you guys.
Lance Romance
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Hello Achielles, do you remember Juggler from the book he lives in Ann Arbor. He offer bootcamps and they rock. I went to one a month ago and it was the best thing I ever did. His method is based more on personality and conversation than on routines. I found that this fit my style better. You should check him out.Achielles34 said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
Lance Romance said:
ya, for $1 600
Achielles34
Don Juan
Juggler's workshop
I was looking at Juggler's workshop, I really want to do it except the cost is exceptionally high. I've been looking at his e-book for awhile now, how would you compare the workshop to his e-book? Would you say the workshop is worth $1600?
I was looking at Juggler's workshop, I really want to do it except the cost is exceptionally high. I've been looking at his e-book for awhile now, how would you compare the workshop to his e-book? Would you say the workshop is worth $1600?
PiHiPlaya
Master Don Juan
Yeah guys, i'm in Ann Arbor. Anyone wanna hit up some bars?
Achielles34
Don Juan
DJs Check in!
All Ann Arbor DJs check in! Send me a pm if you're interested in sarging on a weekly basis, daytime, nighttime, anytime and for the upcoming Art Fair. I'll be setting up a yahoo group to facilitate communication. Newbies welcome for now...
All Ann Arbor DJs check in! Send me a pm if you're interested in sarging on a weekly basis, daytime, nighttime, anytime and for the upcoming Art Fair. I'll be setting up a yahoo group to facilitate communication. Newbies welcome for now...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mixmasterbert
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adpreston1988
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How old are you guys? I'll be attending the University of Michigan this fall semester as an incoming freshman so I'm only 17 years old.
Achielles34
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wow u're really young. I'm 23 and I may be your RA if you live in Baits.
adpreston1988
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I'll actually be housing in Couzens. I originally got Bursley Hall, but did a contract reassignment. Some friends of mine are living in Baits next year and they're really cool guys.Achielles34 said:
adpreston1988
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Since everyone in this thread is from Ann Arbor I just have a few questions to ask. First of all, what does everyone here think is the best dance club in Ann Arbor? Necto? And second of all, what is everyone's favorite place to shop for clothes? A & F? Hollilster? PacSun? H & M? Old Navy? Eddie Bauer? American Eagle?
Just curious to know everyone's opinion
Just curious to know everyone's opinion
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.