"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi, I'm from university of michigan. I almost finished reading "the game" quite the eye opener. Let's get a group started...any DJs in Ann Arbor?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sorry I haven't gotten back to you

I've been without internet. I didn't have your phone number. I'd still like to meet up and pick-up some chicks. That would be cool.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That's quite alright

Crossboss,
That's alright, I'm thinking about sarging different locations, UofM diag, malls, clubs, etc, at least once a week. Cafe and I did one round in the diag a few weeks ago, I'm thinking of doing this more consistently, helping each other out, and really stepping up our games in next 2 months.
 

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this weekend

Let's meet up this Sat around 1pm in the diag if u can make it. I'm going to give cafenoir a call also. Drop me a private message with your phone #.
 

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Holy sh*T!!!!Guys im in Michigan as well,im in Lansing,Michigan but were you guys at anin Ann Arbor i\'ll defintely come with you guys.
 

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Achielles34 said:
Hi, I'm from university of michigan. I almost finished reading "the game" quite the eye opener. Let's get a group started...any DJs in Ann Arbor?
Hello Achielles, do you remember Juggler from the book he lives in Ann Arbor. He offer bootcamps and they rock. I went to one a month ago and it was the best thing I ever did. His method is based more on personality and conversation than on routines. I found that this fit my style better. You should check him out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lance Romance said:
Hello Achielles, do you remember Juggler from the book he lives in Ann Arbor. He offer bootcamps and they rock. I went to one a month ago and it was the best thing I ever did. His method is based more on personality and conversation than on routines. I found that this fit my style better. You should check him out.

ya, for $1 600:rolleyes:
 

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Juggler's workshop

I was looking at Juggler's workshop, I really want to do it except the cost is exceptionally high. I've been looking at his e-book for awhile now, how would you compare the workshop to his e-book? Would you say the workshop is worth $1600?
 

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DJs Check in!

All Ann Arbor DJs check in! Send me a pm if you're interested in sarging on a weekly basis, daytime, nighttime, anytime and for the upcoming Art Fair. I'll be setting up a yahoo group to facilitate communication. Newbies welcome for now...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How old are you guys? I'll be attending the University of Michigan this fall semester as an incoming freshman so I'm only 17 years old.
 

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wow u're really young. I'm 23 and I may be your RA if you live in Baits.
 

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Achielles34 said:
wow u're really young. I'm 23 and I may be your RA if you live in Baits.
I'll actually be housing in Couzens. I originally got Bursley Hall, but did a contract reassignment. Some friends of mine are living in Baits next year and they're really cool guys.
 

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Since everyone in this thread is from Ann Arbor I just have a few questions to ask. First of all, what does everyone here think is the best dance club in Ann Arbor? Necto? And second of all, what is everyone's favorite place to shop for clothes? A & F? Hollilster? PacSun? H & M? Old Navy? Eddie Bauer? American Eagle?

Just curious to know everyone's opinion
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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