I'll get right to it. I can start up a conversation with a guy easy, but when I see a chick, even if I have something in my head to say to open, I won't do it. I don't understand what my problem is. I had 2-3 chances in the gym today to at least say something, and every time I had something simple to say to open. Girl was doing an exercise half-assed near me, I had a simple opener in my head: "That looks waaay to easy for you, I think you need to up the weight if you want to see any results," Then commence kino by "showing" her how to do it correctly. I did nothing, AFC'd out. Girl was cleaning a mat off in the stretching area, I was doing crunches nearby. I could have easily said: "I think you missed a spot right there." Nope, AFC again. There was one other but I think you get the point. I had no trouble at all having a short conversation with a guy I had never met before, though, and talking to a few guys who I already knew. I'm making myself sick just thinking about it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Angry with myself... Others may be able to relate.
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