"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ_in_making

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I noticed something on this site that has bothered me. And if no one complains about it I'm going to.

Many guys come on the site asking for advice and may get about 3 answers or old bible cliches ect. But when a woman comes on and asks questions about guys, every single man on the website answers her like crazy!

What's the deal with that? This website is-- or atleast I believe-- is supposed to be one to help guys grow and become don juans, teaching eachother the game and overcoming the fear that comes with trying to attract women. If a girl occasionally comes on wanting advice big deal, help her out too. But if the question of a man is being 2nd to that of a woman that is just wrong.

She's not gonna give you cyber pvssy or anything, so just stick to the priorities and that's making a Don Juan.

Tnx guys:rockon:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Boner da Stoner

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I believe it to be social proofing in progress


They are expressing their ideas to the women to make sure it actually works

If I have ever responded it was to comment on how worked up she's gotten over something so trivial, and how men see this and use it.

I could argue with her as well though, and tell her to flaunt it and use her emotions as a weapon.
 

Warboss Alex

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I thought Don Juans were in this to get girls, and hence would consider a woman poster the ideal opportunity to practice what they (according to DJ_In_Making, so reluctantly preach), at least in textual format, there's no need to buy her a drink or worry about whether your zipper's open or not ...

(Okay, I'm done, back to my power rack in H&F..)
 

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Cuz its so damned funny. Its like standing behind a guy who's standing at the edge of a cliff. You can't just help but push him off.
 

TITANIUM_HeaRT

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
I noticed something on this site that has bothered me. And if no one complains about it I'm going to.

Many guys come on the site asking for advice and may get about 3 answers or old bible cliches ect. But when a woman comes on and asks questions about guys, every single man on the website answers her like crazy!

What's the deal with that? This website is-- or atleast I believe-- is supposed to be one to help guys grow and become don juans, teaching eachother the game and overcoming the fear that comes with trying to attract women. If a girl occasionally comes on wanting advice big deal, help her out too. But if the question of a man is being 2nd to that of a woman that is just wrong.

She's not gonna give you cyber pvssy or anything, so just stick to the priorities and that's making a Don Juan.

Tnx guys:rockon:
thats the whole reason people come here, because they need to learn to stop going out of their way to help out random women.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TITANIUM_HeaRT

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Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
any woman that posts on a site like this is an attention hor, so you shouldn't take them seriously.
good post.
 

diablo

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
But when a woman comes on and asks questions about guys, every single man on the website answers her like crazy!
Just because a guy is on the site doesn't mean he still doesn't have hold-ups from when he was (or still is) an AFC. Responding to a female is one thing... doing like you said is completely different... and sad.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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h2o

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Originally posted by GuitarOnFire
Two words: Keyboard jockeys.
hey now...you're the one who doesn't test his tips before he posts them.

no offense, but you admitted it yourself.

i seriously don't have anything against you..........except for that.

but back to the original post DJ_in_making, i noticed that too. read my post in "Lauren's thread." yeah, i replied, because i wanted to emphasize Kevin's response.

i think it's because too many guys here are GETTING NONE, so they still put that pvssy on a pedestal.
 
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