"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJ_in_making

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I noticed something on this site that has bothered me. And if no one complains about it I'm going to.

Many guys come on the site asking for advice and may get about 3 answers or old bible cliches ect. But when a woman comes on and asks questions about guys, every single man on the website answers her like crazy!

What's the deal with that? This website is-- or atleast I believe-- is supposed to be one to help guys grow and become don juans, teaching eachother the game and overcoming the fear that comes with trying to attract women. If a girl occasionally comes on wanting advice big deal, help her out too. But if the question of a man is being 2nd to that of a woman that is just wrong.

She's not gonna give you cyber pvssy or anything, so just stick to the priorities and that's making a Don Juan.

Tnx guys:rockon:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I believe it to be social proofing in progress


They are expressing their ideas to the women to make sure it actually works

If I have ever responded it was to comment on how worked up she's gotten over something so trivial, and how men see this and use it.

I could argue with her as well though, and tell her to flaunt it and use her emotions as a weapon.
 

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I thought Don Juans were in this to get girls, and hence would consider a woman poster the ideal opportunity to practice what they (according to DJ_In_Making, so reluctantly preach), at least in textual format, there's no need to buy her a drink or worry about whether your zipper's open or not ...

(Okay, I'm done, back to my power rack in H&F..)
 

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Cuz its so damned funny. Its like standing behind a guy who's standing at the edge of a cliff. You can't just help but push him off.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
I noticed something on this site that has bothered me. And if no one complains about it I'm going to.

Many guys come on the site asking for advice and may get about 3 answers or old bible cliches ect. But when a woman comes on and asks questions about guys, every single man on the website answers her like crazy!

What's the deal with that? This website is-- or atleast I believe-- is supposed to be one to help guys grow and become don juans, teaching eachother the game and overcoming the fear that comes with trying to attract women. If a girl occasionally comes on wanting advice big deal, help her out too. But if the question of a man is being 2nd to that of a woman that is just wrong.

She's not gonna give you cyber pvssy or anything, so just stick to the priorities and that's making a Don Juan.

Tnx guys:rockon:
thats the whole reason people come here, because they need to learn to stop going out of their way to help out random women.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
any woman that posts on a site like this is an attention hor, so you shouldn't take them seriously.
good post.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
But when a woman comes on and asks questions about guys, every single man on the website answers her like crazy!
Just because a guy is on the site doesn't mean he still doesn't have hold-ups from when he was (or still is) an AFC. Responding to a female is one thing... doing like you said is completely different... and sad.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by GuitarOnFire
Two words: Keyboard jockeys.
hey now...you're the one who doesn't test his tips before he posts them.

no offense, but you admitted it yourself.

i seriously don't have anything against you..........except for that.

but back to the original post DJ_in_making, i noticed that too. read my post in "Lauren's thread." yeah, i replied, because i wanted to emphasize Kevin's response.

i think it's because too many guys here are GETTING NONE, so they still put that pvssy on a pedestal.
 
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