"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJ_in_making

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I noticed something on this site that has bothered me. And if no one complains about it I'm going to.

Many guys come on the site asking for advice and may get about 3 answers or old bible cliches ect. But when a woman comes on and asks questions about guys, every single man on the website answers her like crazy!

What's the deal with that? This website is-- or atleast I believe-- is supposed to be one to help guys grow and become don juans, teaching eachother the game and overcoming the fear that comes with trying to attract women. If a girl occasionally comes on wanting advice big deal, help her out too. But if the question of a man is being 2nd to that of a woman that is just wrong.

She's not gonna give you cyber pvssy or anything, so just stick to the priorities and that's making a Don Juan.

Tnx guys:rockon:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I believe it to be social proofing in progress


They are expressing their ideas to the women to make sure it actually works

If I have ever responded it was to comment on how worked up she's gotten over something so trivial, and how men see this and use it.

I could argue with her as well though, and tell her to flaunt it and use her emotions as a weapon.
 

Warboss Alex

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I thought Don Juans were in this to get girls, and hence would consider a woman poster the ideal opportunity to practice what they (according to DJ_In_Making, so reluctantly preach), at least in textual format, there's no need to buy her a drink or worry about whether your zipper's open or not ...

(Okay, I'm done, back to my power rack in H&F..)
 

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Cuz its so damned funny. Its like standing behind a guy who's standing at the edge of a cliff. You can't just help but push him off.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
I noticed something on this site that has bothered me. And if no one complains about it I'm going to.

Many guys come on the site asking for advice and may get about 3 answers or old bible cliches ect. But when a woman comes on and asks questions about guys, every single man on the website answers her like crazy!

What's the deal with that? This website is-- or atleast I believe-- is supposed to be one to help guys grow and become don juans, teaching eachother the game and overcoming the fear that comes with trying to attract women. If a girl occasionally comes on wanting advice big deal, help her out too. But if the question of a man is being 2nd to that of a woman that is just wrong.

She's not gonna give you cyber pvssy or anything, so just stick to the priorities and that's making a Don Juan.

Tnx guys:rockon:
thats the whole reason people come here, because they need to learn to stop going out of their way to help out random women.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
any woman that posts on a site like this is an attention hor, so you shouldn't take them seriously.
good post.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
But when a woman comes on and asks questions about guys, every single man on the website answers her like crazy!
Just because a guy is on the site doesn't mean he still doesn't have hold-ups from when he was (or still is) an AFC. Responding to a female is one thing... doing like you said is completely different... and sad.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by GuitarOnFire
Two words: Keyboard jockeys.
hey now...you're the one who doesn't test his tips before he posts them.

no offense, but you admitted it yourself.

i seriously don't have anything against you..........except for that.

but back to the original post DJ_in_making, i noticed that too. read my post in "Lauren's thread." yeah, i replied, because i wanted to emphasize Kevin's response.

i think it's because too many guys here are GETTING NONE, so they still put that pvssy on a pedestal.
 
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