"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Android phone texts

claudolfgeorgini

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Do any of you think it's possible that a girl would ignore your texts because you have an android vs an iphone? If you had both phones did you notice a difference?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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marmel75

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Seriously?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dude99

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I have heard of I-phones not receiving texts from droids on occasion. Call if in doubt!
Usually that will only happen if the person has imessanger turned on and they have no internet connection. Once they get an internet connection all the texts come in.

Other than that, the "i didn't receive your text," line is usually a lie.
 

nismo-4

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Yeah, using android shows a ton of lower SMV
Sometimes a girl will drop you because you have an android instead of an iphone. I knew a gamer girl who stopped talking to a guy because he had a PS4 instead of an Xbox One!

To some girls, your electronics can be a deal breaker. But no guy here wants to be an e-orbiter!
 

marmel75

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Yeah, using android shows a ton of lower SMV
Yeah...paying triple for much smaller phones, features android had 3 years ago and the privilege to pay for every app you download is really where its at!
 
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