"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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And jus like that i was chumping it up....

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Well go back a few months ago n I was going strong. I was improving everytime i left the house.

Then I liked this 1 grl, felt a bit desperate. I was picking up a shed load of signals. B4 you know it I was complimenting her every second, waiting until she felt like a relationship, she was telling me about other guys n I was getting realy jelous n clingy :eek: Didnt even want to meet any other girls!?!?!

She said to me id kiss you but i just dont want a relationship. Womanease- I jus dont want a relationship with you.

Worst part was I didnt even notice :mad: I was chumping it up like no tomorrow. N hell I'm even better looking than her so shes below standard. (I'm always getting told I can do better even with gd looking grls).

Neways I'm trying to get back n be that guy i was. Never wait around for a girl! Like some guy in the bible said she was realy intrested until I became someone else.

Any of you guys been through the same s**t?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah I went throug that and it got me here.
Here is where I gained knowledge and I have grown and changed for the better.. No way would I ever wanna go back to the old days.

Falling in love is the ultimate test of your 'DJ' insight :)
 
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I have been studying seduction since january soacking in everything. I was like getting with girls n being rejected (without it bothering me) weekly. I'm nearly back now I'm gonna meet this girl tonight. Not even bothered if I mess it up, she can impress me!
 
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The good news is, since you've found this site and you do fvck up, you'll know where you went wrong and you'll have less of a problem getting over it.

Good luck on your date tonight.. Go and get some :cool:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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haha cheers man :)

Whatever happens it's a learning experience ainnit.

When I meet this girl tonight im gonna bust on her like mad :D Shes 16 and is a sergent :p in army cadets so haha...... Anyone think of some ****y and funny stuff?

I was thinking when she asks me to do something Im gonna say "what next? get down and give me 20?" and lotsa "yes sergent".
 
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ye ok night I'm smashed.... don think that girl met the standard... she was ok I guess. Lesson learnt do not bring friends to meet a girl, do it yourself!
 
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well it's the morning after. What a night hahaha I met her at a bar, didnt buy her a drink whilst me n the boys got pissed :D I ended up acting like Tom Green all night :eek: when the boys were giving me neg hit I jus laughed.

I remember later on once the woman left, my mate saying hit me, so I did :rolleyes: n he was screaming for about a hour n hasnt bothered going to work today..... I only hit him light cause I was sitting down....I think my knuckles bust....

Anyways the grl jus txt me just now

"hey woz kool 2meet u, hope i werent 2borin lol. Hope u ad fun wit lynn lol. Ava gd day. Tb lvs Gem x x x"

What you guys think?
 
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i think call the girl and bust her balls :) ...

this time show no respect to women..they are ALL b!tches..and they luved to be treated like one...

As soon as you show a woman respect ...she will dump your asssss like no tomorrow

I do believe the above is the biggest DJ secret!
 
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Dam rite all girls are *****es. that grl txt me n said blah blah blah n then "say hi to paul, tb luv gem x x x". She intrested in my mate :O?

Shes worthless but hay I don care, as I said NEXT!!

I may take a brake and jus chill n learn some more stuff (finish the bible) n do the whole bootcamp thing.

I was walking through town earlier and saw this guy who looked like brad pitt n was musclular too n I was thinking dam he must have it soo easy...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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