"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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And jus like that i was chumping it up....

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Well go back a few months ago n I was going strong. I was improving everytime i left the house.

Then I liked this 1 grl, felt a bit desperate. I was picking up a shed load of signals. B4 you know it I was complimenting her every second, waiting until she felt like a relationship, she was telling me about other guys n I was getting realy jelous n clingy :eek: Didnt even want to meet any other girls!?!?!

She said to me id kiss you but i just dont want a relationship. Womanease- I jus dont want a relationship with you.

Worst part was I didnt even notice :mad: I was chumping it up like no tomorrow. N hell I'm even better looking than her so shes below standard. (I'm always getting told I can do better even with gd looking grls).

Neways I'm trying to get back n be that guy i was. Never wait around for a girl! Like some guy in the bible said she was realy intrested until I became someone else.

Any of you guys been through the same s**t?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah I went throug that and it got me here.
Here is where I gained knowledge and I have grown and changed for the better.. No way would I ever wanna go back to the old days.

Falling in love is the ultimate test of your 'DJ' insight :)
 
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I have been studying seduction since january soacking in everything. I was like getting with girls n being rejected (without it bothering me) weekly. I'm nearly back now I'm gonna meet this girl tonight. Not even bothered if I mess it up, she can impress me!
 
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The good news is, since you've found this site and you do fvck up, you'll know where you went wrong and you'll have less of a problem getting over it.

Good luck on your date tonight.. Go and get some :cool:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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haha cheers man :)

Whatever happens it's a learning experience ainnit.

When I meet this girl tonight im gonna bust on her like mad :D Shes 16 and is a sergent :p in army cadets so haha...... Anyone think of some ****y and funny stuff?

I was thinking when she asks me to do something Im gonna say "what next? get down and give me 20?" and lotsa "yes sergent".
 
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ye ok night I'm smashed.... don think that girl met the standard... she was ok I guess. Lesson learnt do not bring friends to meet a girl, do it yourself!
 
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well it's the morning after. What a night hahaha I met her at a bar, didnt buy her a drink whilst me n the boys got pissed :D I ended up acting like Tom Green all night :eek: when the boys were giving me neg hit I jus laughed.

I remember later on once the woman left, my mate saying hit me, so I did :rolleyes: n he was screaming for about a hour n hasnt bothered going to work today..... I only hit him light cause I was sitting down....I think my knuckles bust....

Anyways the grl jus txt me just now

"hey woz kool 2meet u, hope i werent 2borin lol. Hope u ad fun wit lynn lol. Ava gd day. Tb lvs Gem x x x"

What you guys think?
 
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i think call the girl and bust her balls :) ...

this time show no respect to women..they are ALL b!tches..and they luved to be treated like one...

As soon as you show a woman respect ...she will dump your asssss like no tomorrow

I do believe the above is the biggest DJ secret!
 
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Dam rite all girls are *****es. that grl txt me n said blah blah blah n then "say hi to paul, tb luv gem x x x". She intrested in my mate :O?

Shes worthless but hay I don care, as I said NEXT!!

I may take a brake and jus chill n learn some more stuff (finish the bible) n do the whole bootcamp thing.

I was walking through town earlier and saw this guy who looked like brad pitt n was musclular too n I was thinking dam he must have it soo easy...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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