"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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And jus like that i was chumping it up....

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Well go back a few months ago n I was going strong. I was improving everytime i left the house.

Then I liked this 1 grl, felt a bit desperate. I was picking up a shed load of signals. B4 you know it I was complimenting her every second, waiting until she felt like a relationship, she was telling me about other guys n I was getting realy jelous n clingy :eek: Didnt even want to meet any other girls!?!?!

She said to me id kiss you but i just dont want a relationship. Womanease- I jus dont want a relationship with you.

Worst part was I didnt even notice :mad: I was chumping it up like no tomorrow. N hell I'm even better looking than her so shes below standard. (I'm always getting told I can do better even with gd looking grls).

Neways I'm trying to get back n be that guy i was. Never wait around for a girl! Like some guy in the bible said she was realy intrested until I became someone else.

Any of you guys been through the same s**t?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah I went throug that and it got me here.
Here is where I gained knowledge and I have grown and changed for the better.. No way would I ever wanna go back to the old days.

Falling in love is the ultimate test of your 'DJ' insight :)
 
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I have been studying seduction since january soacking in everything. I was like getting with girls n being rejected (without it bothering me) weekly. I'm nearly back now I'm gonna meet this girl tonight. Not even bothered if I mess it up, she can impress me!
 
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The good news is, since you've found this site and you do fvck up, you'll know where you went wrong and you'll have less of a problem getting over it.

Good luck on your date tonight.. Go and get some :cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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haha cheers man :)

Whatever happens it's a learning experience ainnit.

When I meet this girl tonight im gonna bust on her like mad :D Shes 16 and is a sergent :p in army cadets so haha...... Anyone think of some ****y and funny stuff?

I was thinking when she asks me to do something Im gonna say "what next? get down and give me 20?" and lotsa "yes sergent".
 
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ye ok night I'm smashed.... don think that girl met the standard... she was ok I guess. Lesson learnt do not bring friends to meet a girl, do it yourself!
 
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well it's the morning after. What a night hahaha I met her at a bar, didnt buy her a drink whilst me n the boys got pissed :D I ended up acting like Tom Green all night :eek: when the boys were giving me neg hit I jus laughed.

I remember later on once the woman left, my mate saying hit me, so I did :rolleyes: n he was screaming for about a hour n hasnt bothered going to work today..... I only hit him light cause I was sitting down....I think my knuckles bust....

Anyways the grl jus txt me just now

"hey woz kool 2meet u, hope i werent 2borin lol. Hope u ad fun wit lynn lol. Ava gd day. Tb lvs Gem x x x"

What you guys think?
 
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i think call the girl and bust her balls :) ...

this time show no respect to women..they are ALL b!tches..and they luved to be treated like one...

As soon as you show a woman respect ...she will dump your asssss like no tomorrow

I do believe the above is the biggest DJ secret!
 
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Dam rite all girls are *****es. that grl txt me n said blah blah blah n then "say hi to paul, tb luv gem x x x". She intrested in my mate :O?

Shes worthless but hay I don care, as I said NEXT!!

I may take a brake and jus chill n learn some more stuff (finish the bible) n do the whole bootcamp thing.

I was walking through town earlier and saw this guy who looked like brad pitt n was musclular too n I was thinking dam he must have it soo easy...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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