"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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anbody use a crossbow after free weights for years

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hey does anyone have input on how effective a crossbow would be after building on free weights for decades?.....i can't find a reliable partner again and am considering a crossbow as an alternative to free weights because my benchin is dangerous with out a spotter for sets of 225+ and i can bearly get 80lbs. dumbells into position for flies though my chest can handle more. my biggest concerns on the crossbow is how effective is it on bench pressing, military pressing, and bicept curls?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ Girevik

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Machines are always inferior to freeweights. If you are worried about it and have no spotters, can you twist the weight to one side so that the plates fall off, then let the plates slide off the other side, and rerack the empty bar?
 

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Then work up to dumbell lifting. A 2x80lb dumbell bench press is pretty tough. Always stick with freeweights. Machines will always piss you off after a certain period of time, once you've realized what all you can't do on them.
 
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