"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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OJN_98

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Imagine this, you have a young adult male who’s been raised by his grandmother and mother his entire life w/o the father.

The mother is extremely logical, authorative, hypocritical, and won’t be debated with. The grandmother is very empathetic, not too book smart but has experience, and coddling. The father is affable, calm composured, and insightful. While the mother is insightful, she’s a bit brash. Other men in the family are the father’s way.

Would you think the young male’s way of thinking and attitude be drastically changed? If so, how exactly would it be? This is for a psychology class project.

Thanks, SS.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OJN_98

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Why are we talking about the father if the kid has been raised "his entire life w/o the father?"
Just to add an extra variable to the project, but disregard that. Focus on the grandmother and mother.
 

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The mother being the dominant figure in his life, being as you put it being authoritve and hypocritical, and unreasonable,prorbably makes most of his decidions for him so he isnt ever going to take charge because mama wouldn't like it.

He probably sucks up to the grandmother because she is warmer than his mother.

He will most likely be shy reserved, and maybe even have a deep dark seeded anger towards women in general. He will never be able to have a proper relationship with them because of the lack of bond with his mother and a deep feeling of feeling unimportant because of the absense of his father.

Perhaps delusional where he has fanticies of harming his mother, and other women to 'right the wrongs?" He feels he has been given in life.


Now with all that said, without actually knowing the guy this is all speculation and a psychological profile from a very cursary glance with your small description.
 

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I would think he would turn out the way he was generically predisposed to turn out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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