Analyze this event for me please!

[j8snx1]

What's up everybody!
It turns out that HB8 that I tried to get with called me in order to tell me the LJBF test/statement/garbage!

Here's the scoop:

I was on my way home on the bus and she gives me a call:

GIRL: Hey j8snx1, I've been thinking about this for a while, and I really feel uncomfortable about the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing. I'm looking at the future right now, and I don't know if I want to have a boyfriend yet.

(I scoffed inside my head @ this point, BUT!)

ME: Oh please, we were always friends HB8. It's all good.

***less than 10 seconds of talking for a bit***
ME: Well here's my stop, I gotta run, have a great weekend.

END.


I had a big gut feeling that it was some kind of test that serves as a dealbreaker when it came to just being friends or being BF material, but she did say she felt uncomfortable.

Ironically, the mind is such a damn tricky SOB; I then thought about the whole "make her feel as though she had something to lose," and other possible C&F crap I could've said! I'm kicking myself as I post this up!

I'm going to move on, but I'd like you DJ's to analyze and suggest what I could've done during the conversation!

THANKS!

 

[B-Lemond]

Maybe if we had some background information we could analize your situation better.

 

[DJ4Real]

From what you have down...it seems like what you said was ok......

You should have said something like....oh that's ok, but you'll be missing out...good luck.

 

[j8snx1]

BAH! okay here's the background info:

I started talking to the HB8 3 weeks ago, and it was all fine and dandy with the C&F, kino, etc etc etc. Before the Thanksgiving break, I suggested we hang out over thanksgiving, did the number close, bim badda boom.

I then called her during the break, but her cousin came over so they hung out over the rest of the week, but she suddenly said, "we're JUST hanging out right? Can I bring a friend?"

I had doubts and many DJ's told me she had low IL, so I decided to move on. She then gave me the call today...which brings me back to the thing I just posted.

Could I have done better by making her come after me again OR end on a high note that may make her change her mind?

If not, then what do you guys suggest that I could have done better?

 

[AC/DC]

You did what you could. Be nice to her, but don't be good friends if you're uncomfortable.