Bokanovsky
Master Don Juan
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Yes...140 lbs.Calvin said:I'm curious as to whether there are any red flags that people should have seen in this profile
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yes...140 lbs.Calvin said:I'm curious as to whether there are any red flags that people should have seen in this profile
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Let your girlfriend pick her own friends.Calvin said:Thanks for the feedback from everyone so far.
I think I'm trying to confirm and validate my perception that this is a low quality woman and that my girlfriend is better off not having "friends" like this.
Young and/or inexperienced lads, listen to what this man says. Nothing beats solid advice from someone who has lived enough and gone through experiences and lessons only time teaches you. No shortcuts on this one.Atom Smasher said:You guys must remember, this is all female BS, absolutely and positively meaningless once she meets you. Don't they all write delusional crap like this?
If she likes you her "rules" go right out the window and she starts submitting to your rules, if you know how to play.
I've never once met a girl from an online site that wasn't severely flawed or batsh!t crazy. I used to hope for the best but I've accepted that any women who turns to the Interwebs for a mate is extremely mentally and emotionally unbalanced.
When a false friend has a negative effect on your woman emotionally, then it becomes your business. At that point, you put your foot down, and like a parent dealing with a child who is hanging out with a kid who is no good for her, you tell her that she needs to break contact with this so-called "friend" and make friendships that are more healthy.Purefilth said:Let your girlfriend pick her own friends.
As long as YOU are aware of this woman, you dont need to go messing with other peoples friendships.
Poking your nose into affairs that dont concern you is something that WOMEN do and is therefore beneath you.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.