Bokanovsky
Master Don Juan
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Yes...140 lbs.Calvin said:I'm curious as to whether there are any red flags that people should have seen in this profile
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yes...140 lbs.Calvin said:I'm curious as to whether there are any red flags that people should have seen in this profile
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Let your girlfriend pick her own friends.Calvin said:Thanks for the feedback from everyone so far.
I think I'm trying to confirm and validate my perception that this is a low quality woman and that my girlfriend is better off not having "friends" like this.
Young and/or inexperienced lads, listen to what this man says. Nothing beats solid advice from someone who has lived enough and gone through experiences and lessons only time teaches you. No shortcuts on this one.Atom Smasher said:You guys must remember, this is all female BS, absolutely and positively meaningless once she meets you. Don't they all write delusional crap like this?
If she likes you her "rules" go right out the window and she starts submitting to your rules, if you know how to play.
I've never once met a girl from an online site that wasn't severely flawed or batsh!t crazy. I used to hope for the best but I've accepted that any women who turns to the Interwebs for a mate is extremely mentally and emotionally unbalanced.
When a false friend has a negative effect on your woman emotionally, then it becomes your business. At that point, you put your foot down, and like a parent dealing with a child who is hanging out with a kid who is no good for her, you tell her that she needs to break contact with this so-called "friend" and make friendships that are more healthy.Purefilth said:Let your girlfriend pick her own friends.
As long as YOU are aware of this woman, you dont need to go messing with other peoples friendships.
Poking your nose into affairs that dont concern you is something that WOMEN do and is therefore beneath you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.