Bokanovsky
Master Don Juan
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Yes...140 lbs.Calvin said:I'm curious as to whether there are any red flags that people should have seen in this profile
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Yes...140 lbs.Calvin said:I'm curious as to whether there are any red flags that people should have seen in this profile
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Let your girlfriend pick her own friends.Calvin said:Thanks for the feedback from everyone so far.
I think I'm trying to confirm and validate my perception that this is a low quality woman and that my girlfriend is better off not having "friends" like this.
Young and/or inexperienced lads, listen to what this man says. Nothing beats solid advice from someone who has lived enough and gone through experiences and lessons only time teaches you. No shortcuts on this one.Atom Smasher said:You guys must remember, this is all female BS, absolutely and positively meaningless once she meets you. Don't they all write delusional crap like this?
If she likes you her "rules" go right out the window and she starts submitting to your rules, if you know how to play.
I've never once met a girl from an online site that wasn't severely flawed or batsh!t crazy. I used to hope for the best but I've accepted that any women who turns to the Interwebs for a mate is extremely mentally and emotionally unbalanced.
When a false friend has a negative effect on your woman emotionally, then it becomes your business. At that point, you put your foot down, and like a parent dealing with a child who is hanging out with a kid who is no good for her, you tell her that she needs to break contact with this so-called "friend" and make friendships that are more healthy.Purefilth said:Let your girlfriend pick her own friends.
As long as YOU are aware of this woman, you dont need to go messing with other peoples friendships.
Poking your nose into affairs that dont concern you is something that WOMEN do and is therefore beneath you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.