Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Colossus

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Done it, it's over-hyped. Nothing beats the V.

Its more the act of dominance that turns me on. A girl surrendering her ass to you, holding her down, hearing her squeaks and moans...total turn on.

But as far as the feel, second-rate IMO and lots of potential for grossness.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Reyaj

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Done it, it's over-hyped. Nothing beats the V.

Its more the act of dominance that turns me on. A girl surrendering her ass to you, holding her down, hearing her squeaks and moans...total turn on.

But as far as the feel, second-rate IMO and lots of potential for grossness.
2 questions:

Would it turn you off if you found out your partner had done it with someone else in the past?

is the feeling of dominance worth the potential for grossness? i keep thinking about doing it and i'm getting grossed out knowing that shvt consistently passes through there.

Still there is that feeling of someone with a significant sexual resume like myself having to add it there...
 

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Any past sexual experience is a turn off for me, but my wife was a virgin when i met her so my standard is different than say, if i were still dating.

Prior anal would definitely turn me off.

I mean I've done it enough times and gotten off everytime so the arousal outweighed the potential gross factor, but it's still second rate to the V for me. A nice novelty once in a while though, if you're with a girl who is into it.
 
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