"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Colossus

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Done it, it's over-hyped. Nothing beats the V.

Its more the act of dominance that turns me on. A girl surrendering her ass to you, holding her down, hearing her squeaks and moans...total turn on.

But as far as the feel, second-rate IMO and lots of potential for grossness.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Reyaj

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Done it, it's over-hyped. Nothing beats the V.

Its more the act of dominance that turns me on. A girl surrendering her ass to you, holding her down, hearing her squeaks and moans...total turn on.

But as far as the feel, second-rate IMO and lots of potential for grossness.
2 questions:

Would it turn you off if you found out your partner had done it with someone else in the past?

is the feeling of dominance worth the potential for grossness? i keep thinking about doing it and i'm getting grossed out knowing that shvt consistently passes through there.

Still there is that feeling of someone with a significant sexual resume like myself having to add it there...
 

Colossus

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Any past sexual experience is a turn off for me, but my wife was a virgin when i met her so my standard is different than say, if i were still dating.

Prior anal would definitely turn me off.

I mean I've done it enough times and gotten off everytime so the arousal outweighed the potential gross factor, but it's still second rate to the V for me. A nice novelty once in a while though, if you're with a girl who is into it.
 
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