"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Colossus

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Done it, it's over-hyped. Nothing beats the V.

Its more the act of dominance that turns me on. A girl surrendering her ass to you, holding her down, hearing her squeaks and moans...total turn on.

But as far as the feel, second-rate IMO and lots of potential for grossness.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Reyaj

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Done it, it's over-hyped. Nothing beats the V.

Its more the act of dominance that turns me on. A girl surrendering her ass to you, holding her down, hearing her squeaks and moans...total turn on.

But as far as the feel, second-rate IMO and lots of potential for grossness.
2 questions:

Would it turn you off if you found out your partner had done it with someone else in the past?

is the feeling of dominance worth the potential for grossness? i keep thinking about doing it and i'm getting grossed out knowing that shvt consistently passes through there.

Still there is that feeling of someone with a significant sexual resume like myself having to add it there...
 

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Any past sexual experience is a turn off for me, but my wife was a virgin when i met her so my standard is different than say, if i were still dating.

Prior anal would definitely turn me off.

I mean I've done it enough times and gotten off everytime so the arousal outweighed the potential gross factor, but it's still second rate to the V for me. A nice novelty once in a while though, if you're with a girl who is into it.
 
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