"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Colossus

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Done it, it's over-hyped. Nothing beats the V.

Its more the act of dominance that turns me on. A girl surrendering her ass to you, holding her down, hearing her squeaks and moans...total turn on.

But as far as the feel, second-rate IMO and lots of potential for grossness.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Reyaj

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Done it, it's over-hyped. Nothing beats the V.

Its more the act of dominance that turns me on. A girl surrendering her ass to you, holding her down, hearing her squeaks and moans...total turn on.

But as far as the feel, second-rate IMO and lots of potential for grossness.
2 questions:

Would it turn you off if you found out your partner had done it with someone else in the past?

is the feeling of dominance worth the potential for grossness? i keep thinking about doing it and i'm getting grossed out knowing that shvt consistently passes through there.

Still there is that feeling of someone with a significant sexual resume like myself having to add it there...
 

Colossus

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Any past sexual experience is a turn off for me, but my wife was a virgin when i met her so my standard is different than say, if i were still dating.

Prior anal would definitely turn me off.

I mean I've done it enough times and gotten off everytime so the arousal outweighed the potential gross factor, but it's still second rate to the V for me. A nice novelty once in a while though, if you're with a girl who is into it.
 
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