You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Anal sex with a random slut sounds like a no-brainer to me. What could possibly go wrong?OC Speedball said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Hey man, I think you’re mistaken. You may have been looking at overall transmission rates, which would be relative risk, not absolute risk. If you scroll down the page, by your own link, “Unprotected anal intercourse carries a higher risk of sexual HIV transmission than unprotected vaginal intercourse.”
Eazy-EVladPatton said:
The link reads, "The receptive risk with anal sex is 18 times higher." So that would be the risk for the woman.Deep Dish said:
I lol'd. Repped.VladPatton said:
I was actually thinking about this as I was writing this thread.Purefilth said:
eazy e was most likely fcking guys like dre was, thats what you gotta do to get into the entertainment industryPurefilth said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
HIV is not rare in women; in fact, women are more likely to have HIV than men. However, men are less likely to become infected.OC Speedball said:
Exactly, these number are difficult for understand for the vast majority of people. Props for knowing the difference +1 rep.Deep Dish said:
What an ignorant statement. Being a DJ means looking after yourself and your interests. Yes, growing bigger balls and taking more risks is part of the transition to finding and fvcking women.OC Speedball said: