Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Anal sex with a random slut sounds like a no-brainer to me. What could possibly go wrong?OC Speedball said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Hey man, I think you’re mistaken. You may have been looking at overall transmission rates, which would be relative risk, not absolute risk. If you scroll down the page, by your own link, “Unprotected anal intercourse carries a higher risk of sexual HIV transmission than unprotected vaginal intercourse.”
Eazy-EVladPatton said:
The link reads, "The receptive risk with anal sex is 18 times higher." So that would be the risk for the woman.Deep Dish said:
I lol'd. Repped.VladPatton said:
I was actually thinking about this as I was writing this thread.Purefilth said:
eazy e was most likely fcking guys like dre was, thats what you gotta do to get into the entertainment industryPurefilth said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
HIV is not rare in women; in fact, women are more likely to have HIV than men. However, men are less likely to become infected.OC Speedball said:
Exactly, these number are difficult for understand for the vast majority of people. Props for knowing the difference +1 rep.Deep Dish said:
What an ignorant statement. Being a DJ means looking after yourself and your interests. Yes, growing bigger balls and taking more risks is part of the transition to finding and fvcking women.OC Speedball said: