"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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An Unsurprising Truth: Nurses Are The Most Common Cheaters

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This is my first time viewing this guys content but I noticed the video on my feed and thought I would post it here since I'm sure most of our mature men here have had a similar experience.

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't know about cheating, but they are more sexually active than most career groups. This could have to do with relative ages and that RNs are mostly female, so it's a concentration of fertile, young, relatively well-paid women, meaning examining their behavior is easy.

My POV as a healthcare practitioner:
It has a lot to do with spending long hours working in very close quarters with other clinicians, unsupervised. It's also related to bonding over challenging situations, you have no one but each other to share emotions within these situations; again, it creates emotional bonds, which often result in physical ones. Think about it - she's seen you bring people back from the dead, or you've done it together - there's a level of trust there that cannot be achieved in any other way.
 
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I don't know about cheating, but they are more sexually active than most career groups. This could have to do with relative ages and that RNs are mostly female, so it's a concentration of fertile, young, relatively well-paid women, meaning examining their behavior is easy.

My POV as a healthcare practitioner:
It has a lot to do with spending long hours working in very close quarters with other clinicians, unsupervised. It's also related to bonding over challenging situations, you have no one but each other to share emotions within these situations; again, it creates emotional bonds, which often result in physical ones. Think about it - she's seen you bring people back from the dead, or you've done it together - there's a level of trust there that cannot be achieved in any other way.
Thats a great point, the career sample is very likely almost exclusively women
 

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I don't know about cheating, but they are more sexually active than most career groups. This could have to do with relative ages and that RNs are mostly female, so it's a concentration of fertile, young, relatively well-paid women, meaning examining their behavior is easy.

My POV as a healthcare practitioner:
It has a lot to do with spending long hours working in very close quarters with other clinicians, unsupervised. It's also related to bonding over challenging situations, you have no one but each other to share emotions within these situations; again, it creates emotional bonds, which often result in physical ones. Think about it - she's seen you bring people back from the dead, or you've done it together - there's a level of trust there that cannot be achieved in any other way.
RN’s are who I deal with mostly via work.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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