"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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An Unsurprising Truth: Nurses Are The Most Common Cheaters

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This is my first time viewing this guys content but I noticed the video on my feed and thought I would post it here since I'm sure most of our mature men here have had a similar experience.

 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't know about cheating, but they are more sexually active than most career groups. This could have to do with relative ages and that RNs are mostly female, so it's a concentration of fertile, young, relatively well-paid women, meaning examining their behavior is easy.

My POV as a healthcare practitioner:
It has a lot to do with spending long hours working in very close quarters with other clinicians, unsupervised. It's also related to bonding over challenging situations, you have no one but each other to share emotions within these situations; again, it creates emotional bonds, which often result in physical ones. Think about it - she's seen you bring people back from the dead, or you've done it together - there's a level of trust there that cannot be achieved in any other way.
 
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I don't know about cheating, but they are more sexually active than most career groups. This could have to do with relative ages and that RNs are mostly female, so it's a concentration of fertile, young, relatively well-paid women, meaning examining their behavior is easy.

My POV as a healthcare practitioner:
It has a lot to do with spending long hours working in very close quarters with other clinicians, unsupervised. It's also related to bonding over challenging situations, you have no one but each other to share emotions within these situations; again, it creates emotional bonds, which often result in physical ones. Think about it - she's seen you bring people back from the dead, or you've done it together - there's a level of trust there that cannot be achieved in any other way.
Thats a great point, the career sample is very likely almost exclusively women
 

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I don't know about cheating, but they are more sexually active than most career groups. This could have to do with relative ages and that RNs are mostly female, so it's a concentration of fertile, young, relatively well-paid women, meaning examining their behavior is easy.

My POV as a healthcare practitioner:
It has a lot to do with spending long hours working in very close quarters with other clinicians, unsupervised. It's also related to bonding over challenging situations, you have no one but each other to share emotions within these situations; again, it creates emotional bonds, which often result in physical ones. Think about it - she's seen you bring people back from the dead, or you've done it together - there's a level of trust there that cannot be achieved in any other way.
RN’s are who I deal with mostly via work.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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