"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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An Unsurprising Truth: Nurses Are The Most Common Cheaters

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This is my first time viewing this guys content but I noticed the video on my feed and thought I would post it here since I'm sure most of our mature men here have had a similar experience.

 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't know about cheating, but they are more sexually active than most career groups. This could have to do with relative ages and that RNs are mostly female, so it's a concentration of fertile, young, relatively well-paid women, meaning examining their behavior is easy.

My POV as a healthcare practitioner:
It has a lot to do with spending long hours working in very close quarters with other clinicians, unsupervised. It's also related to bonding over challenging situations, you have no one but each other to share emotions within these situations; again, it creates emotional bonds, which often result in physical ones. Think about it - she's seen you bring people back from the dead, or you've done it together - there's a level of trust there that cannot be achieved in any other way.
 
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I don't know about cheating, but they are more sexually active than most career groups. This could have to do with relative ages and that RNs are mostly female, so it's a concentration of fertile, young, relatively well-paid women, meaning examining their behavior is easy.

My POV as a healthcare practitioner:
It has a lot to do with spending long hours working in very close quarters with other clinicians, unsupervised. It's also related to bonding over challenging situations, you have no one but each other to share emotions within these situations; again, it creates emotional bonds, which often result in physical ones. Think about it - she's seen you bring people back from the dead, or you've done it together - there's a level of trust there that cannot be achieved in any other way.
Thats a great point, the career sample is very likely almost exclusively women
 

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I don't know about cheating, but they are more sexually active than most career groups. This could have to do with relative ages and that RNs are mostly female, so it's a concentration of fertile, young, relatively well-paid women, meaning examining their behavior is easy.

My POV as a healthcare practitioner:
It has a lot to do with spending long hours working in very close quarters with other clinicians, unsupervised. It's also related to bonding over challenging situations, you have no one but each other to share emotions within these situations; again, it creates emotional bonds, which often result in physical ones. Think about it - she's seen you bring people back from the dead, or you've done it together - there's a level of trust there that cannot be achieved in any other way.
RN’s are who I deal with mostly via work.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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