BBX
Master Don Juan
Feminist
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
An outside perspective
- Thread starter MysticViews
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
diplomatic_lies
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 4, 2002
- Messages
- 4,366
- Reaction score
- 8
Its a bit hard not to, half the board is filled with your bitterness. I'm actually thinking you're secretly a nutcase feminist trying to give men a bad rep.( . )( . ) said:
( . )( . )
Banned
Woah easy there tiger, no need to get all personal over......err whatever you got all sand in your vagina over.diplomatic_lies said:
Which part of my post pissed you off this time mate? want a hug, a tissue?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
( . )( . )
Banned
Now that weve put the myth of chicks wanting an "equal" to bed lets look at the rest of this crap.
No LTR's are not the be all and end all of what a man of worth looks for, thats a chicks reality. And what do you mean by "playing games" ?MysticViews said:
The simple answer to your questions: Most guys here don't know how to deal with women.
They know they are f*ck ups but they don't know why, so they keep experimenting with different personalities, attitudes, tricks, mind games and so on, hoping that one day they will chance upon the key to success. But most of them get stuck in the loop and fall deeper into their trap.
Don't let the arrogance fool you. A lot of the posts here make out that this is an expert seduction forum, when the truth is, we only have a handful of experts here and a sh*tload of delusional geeks seeking approval from fellow internet nerds.
As for relationships, despite what they say about monogamy being bullsh*t and not wanting to settle down, some guys don't have the choice because they are not capable of keeping a woman. Even many of the "top" pick up artists can't keep a woman. They know how to fool women into sleeping with them with lies and games, but as soon as they reveal how pathetic they really are, those women run for the hills.
Other guys know how to keep women but they genuinely don't want the hassle, committment and responsibility of a relationship. Or they're just not into the emotional thing. Some women are the same and it's a lifestyle that's more acceptable these days.
I agree 100% that confidence has nothing to do with placing people above or below you. It's about being happy with yourself and the way you live with nothing to prove.
They know they are f*ck ups but they don't know why, so they keep experimenting with different personalities, attitudes, tricks, mind games and so on, hoping that one day they will chance upon the key to success. But most of them get stuck in the loop and fall deeper into their trap.
Don't let the arrogance fool you. A lot of the posts here make out that this is an expert seduction forum, when the truth is, we only have a handful of experts here and a sh*tload of delusional geeks seeking approval from fellow internet nerds.
As for relationships, despite what they say about monogamy being bullsh*t and not wanting to settle down, some guys don't have the choice because they are not capable of keeping a woman. Even many of the "top" pick up artists can't keep a woman. They know how to fool women into sleeping with them with lies and games, but as soon as they reveal how pathetic they really are, those women run for the hills.
Other guys know how to keep women but they genuinely don't want the hassle, committment and responsibility of a relationship. Or they're just not into the emotional thing. Some women are the same and it's a lifestyle that's more acceptable these days.
I agree 100% that confidence has nothing to do with placing people above or below you. It's about being happy with yourself and the way you live with nothing to prove.
diplomatic_lies
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 4, 2002
- Messages
- 4,366
- Reaction score
- 8
I just realised, t!tboy is one of our fine examples of bitter men who hate women. Seriously dude, is there something you're not telling us? Ex-girlfriend ripped out your heart?
Mystic, my advice is to judge people individually. Don't think a person is bad just because he's a man, or a woman, or black. Each person is different from each other (its quite obvious, yet people still don't get it). One person's views doesn't reflect on his entire gender/race/religion.
Mystic, my advice is to judge people individually. Don't think a person is bad just because he's a man, or a woman, or black. Each person is different from each other (its quite obvious, yet people still don't get it). One person's views doesn't reflect on his entire gender/race/religion.
( . )( . )
Banned
diplomatic_lies said:
:crazy:diplomatic_lies said:
lol shiver me timbers dont hold back mate ,tell me how you really feel
But seriously , I'm happy to roll with either one of those labels when you decide which one it is I am, dont think you can have both?
Sound fair?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.