"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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An Old Friend and a Second Chance?

bignick79

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Hey Guys!

I have a unique opportunity here guys. There was this girl i worked with who is a total hottie. She left my job several years ago and we kinda lost touch for a while, but i recently got back in contact with her and we are planning to get some coffee next week. She had a b/f last i knew, but i definately gotta find out what her story is now. How should i handle this one guys??


Big Nick
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Desdinova

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Go out for coffee and flirt flirt flirt!!! BTW, when I mean flirt, I mean use kino, bust on her, use c&f. Don't worry about the whole bf thing. If she's got one, she'll let you know.
 

Maverick001

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bignick79,

Dude if you're attracted to this girl, totally go for it.

Approach the situation as if she's totally interested and available.

Ditto on Desdinova's advice. Be relaxed and have fun with her.

You want to show this girl that you can be that great, fun guy in her life, if she's lucky and plays her cards right.

Keep us posted on what happens.

Cheers,
Mav
 

flexion_

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Chat it up and have fun! Good luck with it.
 
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