"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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An Old Friend and a Second Chance?

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bignick79

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Hey Guys!

I have a unique opportunity here guys. There was this girl i worked with who is a total hottie. She left my job several years ago and we kinda lost touch for a while, but i recently got back in contact with her and we are planning to get some coffee next week. She had a b/f last i knew, but i definately gotta find out what her story is now. How should i handle this one guys??


Big Nick
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Go out for coffee and flirt flirt flirt!!! BTW, when I mean flirt, I mean use kino, bust on her, use c&f. Don't worry about the whole bf thing. If she's got one, she'll let you know.
 
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bignick79,

Dude if you're attracted to this girl, totally go for it.

Approach the situation as if she's totally interested and available.

Ditto on Desdinova's advice. Be relaxed and have fun with her.

You want to show this girl that you can be that great, fun guy in her life, if she's lucky and plays her cards right.

Keep us posted on what happens.

Cheers,
Mav
 
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Chat it up and have fun! Good luck with it.
 
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