"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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An Old Friend and a Second Chance?

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bignick79

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Hey Guys!

I have a unique opportunity here guys. There was this girl i worked with who is a total hottie. She left my job several years ago and we kinda lost touch for a while, but i recently got back in contact with her and we are planning to get some coffee next week. She had a b/f last i knew, but i definately gotta find out what her story is now. How should i handle this one guys??


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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Go out for coffee and flirt flirt flirt!!! BTW, when I mean flirt, I mean use kino, bust on her, use c&f. Don't worry about the whole bf thing. If she's got one, she'll let you know.
 
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bignick79,

Dude if you're attracted to this girl, totally go for it.

Approach the situation as if she's totally interested and available.

Ditto on Desdinova's advice. Be relaxed and have fun with her.

You want to show this girl that you can be that great, fun guy in her life, if she's lucky and plays her cards right.

Keep us posted on what happens.

Cheers,
Mav
 
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Chat it up and have fun! Good luck with it.
 
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