Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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An Old Friend and a Second Chance?

bignick79

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Hey Guys!

I have a unique opportunity here guys. There was this girl i worked with who is a total hottie. She left my job several years ago and we kinda lost touch for a while, but i recently got back in contact with her and we are planning to get some coffee next week. She had a b/f last i knew, but i definately gotta find out what her story is now. How should i handle this one guys??


Big Nick
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Desdinova

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Go out for coffee and flirt flirt flirt!!! BTW, when I mean flirt, I mean use kino, bust on her, use c&f. Don't worry about the whole bf thing. If she's got one, she'll let you know.
 

Maverick001

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bignick79,

Dude if you're attracted to this girl, totally go for it.

Approach the situation as if she's totally interested and available.

Ditto on Desdinova's advice. Be relaxed and have fun with her.

You want to show this girl that you can be that great, fun guy in her life, if she's lucky and plays her cards right.

Keep us posted on what happens.

Cheers,
Mav
 

flexion_

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Chat it up and have fun! Good luck with it.
 
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