I have recently contacted a girl who I haven't been in contact with for a couple of years. I found her through facebook and thought I'd drop her a line because she's good looking. Anyways, I'm fairly new at this all and would like some advice on how to go about bedding her, starting with communicating over the internet.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
An old acquaintance...
- Thread starter Stage
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
say hello? try to set up a date. asap. don't bs around.
get her in your presence and game her hard. make sure she knows what you're about. but be nice to her. if she doesn't want to sleep with you...she will let you know. but hopefully even if she doesn't want to sleep with you...she will have a hard time saying no to you and sleep with you anyway.
get her in your presence and game her hard. make sure she knows what you're about. but be nice to her. if she doesn't want to sleep with you...she will let you know. but hopefully even if she doesn't want to sleep with you...she will have a hard time saying no to you and sleep with you anyway.
I've let her know that I want to hang out with her, I closed off my last email with a pretty solid ****y but funny routine and should get a response from her soon enough. I find that most of the trouble with trying to go from online to real life lies in the initial exchanges. It's tough to find that segway. Anybody else have any advice/ideas?
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
Ask for her phone number and ask her out.
Don't get too caught up in extensive emailing , IMing it can be a double edged sword.
The more you say in text , the more you may have to back up.
Don't get too caught up in extensive emailing , IMing it can be a double edged sword.
The more you say in text , the more you may have to back up.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.