"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hi my name is Dan. Im 15 and a sophmore in high school. I have never had a girl friend before, and only kissed a girl once, but i have been studing up on this forum and have made an incredible difference, but right now i am about to go in for th kill. Long story short a HB10 and i both like eachother. she is in eigth grade (yes younger then me but looks my age and is thought hot by almost everyone in the high school) anyways i was wondering if at this age if to start an actual relationship how do i ask?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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danny987 said:
hi my name is Dan. Im 15 and a sophmore in high school. I have never had a girl friend before, and only kissed a girl once, but i have been studing up on this forum and have made an incredible difference, but right now i am about to go in for th kill. Long story short a HB10 and i both like eachother. she is in eigth grade (yes younger then me but looks my age and is thought hot by almost everyone in the high school) anyways i was wondering if at this age if to start an actual relationship how do i ask?
lol thats funny cause im ur age and your grade and im bout to start dating this 8th grader that everyone knows and thinks is hot in high school.

but my advice to you is let her ask for you guys to be exclusive. but can we get some more details? like how long you guys have been talking, how often you see eachother, etc.?
 

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miniPIMPIN said:
lol thats funny cause im ur age and your grade and im bout to start dating this 8th grader that everyone knows and thinks is hot in high school.

but my advice to you is let her ask for you guys to be exclusive. but can we get some more details? like how long you guys have been talking, how often you see eachother, etc.?
well we talk probably only 3 times a week. we dont talk much becuase were in different schools and she has VB practice everyday right after. i have known her since April but we were no more then just "aquincences" (spelling?) then about three weeks ago we started flirting and talking often.
 

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danny987 said:
well we talk probably only 3 times a week. we dont talk much becuase were in different schools and she has VB practice everyday right after. i have known her since April but we were no more then just "aquincences" (spelling?) then about three weeks ago we started flirting and talking often.
u should hang out with her outside of school and eventualy she will ask you about starting a relationship
 

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u should hang out with her outside of school and eventualy she will ask you about starting a relationship
this weekend then! ill update later...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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