"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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danny987

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hi my name is Dan. Im 15 and a sophmore in high school. I have never had a girl friend before, and only kissed a girl once, but i have been studing up on this forum and have made an incredible difference, but right now i am about to go in for th kill. Long story short a HB10 and i both like eachother. she is in eigth grade (yes younger then me but looks my age and is thought hot by almost everyone in the high school) anyways i was wondering if at this age if to start an actual relationship how do i ask?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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danny987 said:
hi my name is Dan. Im 15 and a sophmore in high school. I have never had a girl friend before, and only kissed a girl once, but i have been studing up on this forum and have made an incredible difference, but right now i am about to go in for th kill. Long story short a HB10 and i both like eachother. she is in eigth grade (yes younger then me but looks my age and is thought hot by almost everyone in the high school) anyways i was wondering if at this age if to start an actual relationship how do i ask?
lol thats funny cause im ur age and your grade and im bout to start dating this 8th grader that everyone knows and thinks is hot in high school.

but my advice to you is let her ask for you guys to be exclusive. but can we get some more details? like how long you guys have been talking, how often you see eachother, etc.?
 

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miniPIMPIN said:
lol thats funny cause im ur age and your grade and im bout to start dating this 8th grader that everyone knows and thinks is hot in high school.

but my advice to you is let her ask for you guys to be exclusive. but can we get some more details? like how long you guys have been talking, how often you see eachother, etc.?
well we talk probably only 3 times a week. we dont talk much becuase were in different schools and she has VB practice everyday right after. i have known her since April but we were no more then just "aquincences" (spelling?) then about three weeks ago we started flirting and talking often.
 

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danny987 said:
well we talk probably only 3 times a week. we dont talk much becuase were in different schools and she has VB practice everyday right after. i have known her since April but we were no more then just "aquincences" (spelling?) then about three weeks ago we started flirting and talking often.
u should hang out with her outside of school and eventualy she will ask you about starting a relationship
 

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miniPIMPIN said:
u should hang out with her outside of school and eventualy she will ask you about starting a relationship
this weekend then! ill update later...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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