"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hi my name is Dan. Im 15 and a sophmore in high school. I have never had a girl friend before, and only kissed a girl once, but i have been studing up on this forum and have made an incredible difference, but right now i am about to go in for th kill. Long story short a HB10 and i both like eachother. she is in eigth grade (yes younger then me but looks my age and is thought hot by almost everyone in the high school) anyways i was wondering if at this age if to start an actual relationship how do i ask?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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danny987 said:
hi my name is Dan. Im 15 and a sophmore in high school. I have never had a girl friend before, and only kissed a girl once, but i have been studing up on this forum and have made an incredible difference, but right now i am about to go in for th kill. Long story short a HB10 and i both like eachother. she is in eigth grade (yes younger then me but looks my age and is thought hot by almost everyone in the high school) anyways i was wondering if at this age if to start an actual relationship how do i ask?
lol thats funny cause im ur age and your grade and im bout to start dating this 8th grader that everyone knows and thinks is hot in high school.

but my advice to you is let her ask for you guys to be exclusive. but can we get some more details? like how long you guys have been talking, how often you see eachother, etc.?
 

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miniPIMPIN said:
lol thats funny cause im ur age and your grade and im bout to start dating this 8th grader that everyone knows and thinks is hot in high school.

but my advice to you is let her ask for you guys to be exclusive. but can we get some more details? like how long you guys have been talking, how often you see eachother, etc.?
well we talk probably only 3 times a week. we dont talk much becuase were in different schools and she has VB practice everyday right after. i have known her since April but we were no more then just "aquincences" (spelling?) then about three weeks ago we started flirting and talking often.
 

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danny987 said:
well we talk probably only 3 times a week. we dont talk much becuase were in different schools and she has VB practice everyday right after. i have known her since April but we were no more then just "aquincences" (spelling?) then about three weeks ago we started flirting and talking often.
u should hang out with her outside of school and eventualy she will ask you about starting a relationship
 

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miniPIMPIN said:
u should hang out with her outside of school and eventualy she will ask you about starting a relationship
this weekend then! ill update later...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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