spiderman1979
New Member
Hi there! I'm new here. I hope I'm posting in the right location. Years ago I used to be a total AFC, but things have changed. Since I started lating dancing a few years ago and got better and better at it, I began having girlfriends on a serial basis. At the beginning I made mistakes (failed tests), but due to the pickup community I now understand the error of my ways.
Anyway, to the question: Last night I met a girl in a dancing club. She was new there, and didn't know how to dance. So I took on the role of the teacher, I noticed her interest level rising on and on, and then I said that I had to go and asked her if she had e-mail. She replied that she did, and gave it to me. Then I asked for her phone number, to which she replied "OK, but just for the record, I'm seeing somene right now". I whispered immediately in her ear in a conspirational tone: "You don't tell me about your problems, I don't tell you about mine, deal?". She smiled and asked whether I wanted her home number. I replied "certainly", got her number and ejected the scene.
Since I haven't been in ths situation before what, according to your experince, which is probably a lot bigger than mine, is my best course of action, especially if I call her (she might say that she isn't comfortable getting together right now because she's seeing someone but we can send each other mail. That could be dangerous because I don't want to enter the friendship zone. She really is something special and I want her).
Please help me.
Anyway, to the question: Last night I met a girl in a dancing club. She was new there, and didn't know how to dance. So I took on the role of the teacher, I noticed her interest level rising on and on, and then I said that I had to go and asked her if she had e-mail. She replied that she did, and gave it to me. Then I asked for her phone number, to which she replied "OK, but just for the record, I'm seeing somene right now". I whispered immediately in her ear in a conspirational tone: "You don't tell me about your problems, I don't tell you about mine, deal?". She smiled and asked whether I wanted her home number. I replied "certainly", got her number and ejected the scene.
Since I haven't been in ths situation before what, according to your experince, which is probably a lot bigger than mine, is my best course of action, especially if I call her (she might say that she isn't comfortable getting together right now because she's seeing someone but we can send each other mail. That could be dangerous because I don't want to enter the friendship zone. She really is something special and I want her).
Please help me.
