"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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An idea.

Lompa

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Well, after reading the whole DJ bible and viewing posts
i have been thinking:
Most of the DJ's when seeing a girl they look and smile to her and hope she will do the same.
I have saw post by someone who said that you should wave to that girl and wait to her to do the same.

I have come up with this idea:
Why won't we wink?
It's not as plain as the look and smile and not wired like the "wave your hand".

From what i have been reading you want to be special, i bet most of the guys don't wink to girls they first met.

What do you think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Winking used to be the IN thing. Now it is considered to be arrogant and only to be done in passing.
 

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Oh, ok so i guess i shouldn't use it,
Thanks anyway.
 

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No problem, we're here to help.
 
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