"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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An idea.

Lompa

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Well, after reading the whole DJ bible and viewing posts
i have been thinking:
Most of the DJ's when seeing a girl they look and smile to her and hope she will do the same.
I have saw post by someone who said that you should wave to that girl and wait to her to do the same.

I have come up with this idea:
Why won't we wink?
It's not as plain as the look and smile and not wired like the "wave your hand".

From what i have been reading you want to be special, i bet most of the guys don't wink to girls they first met.

What do you think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Winking used to be the IN thing. Now it is considered to be arrogant and only to be done in passing.
 

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Oh, ok so i guess i shouldn't use it,
Thanks anyway.
 

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No problem, we're here to help.
 
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