"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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An idea.

Lompa

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Well, after reading the whole DJ bible and viewing posts
i have been thinking:
Most of the DJ's when seeing a girl they look and smile to her and hope she will do the same.
I have saw post by someone who said that you should wave to that girl and wait to her to do the same.

I have come up with this idea:
Why won't we wink?
It's not as plain as the look and smile and not wired like the "wave your hand".

From what i have been reading you want to be special, i bet most of the guys don't wink to girls they first met.

What do you think?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Winking used to be the IN thing. Now it is considered to be arrogant and only to be done in passing.
 

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Oh, ok so i guess i shouldn't use it,
Thanks anyway.
 

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No problem, we're here to help.
 
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