FreeStyleZ
Senior Don Juan
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- Dec 26, 2003
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Effort, trust me, you are doing things that most guys would never get themselves to do. Feel good about it man! I just have a few comments though. If your goals for right now are to just practice getting over the approaching and the fear of asking for the number then you are doing absolutely great.
Though if you want to practice getting better at building the girls interest level so that she actually wants to give you the number there are a few things you should probably work on. Neg hits and being c+f as you probably already know. During these approaches i havent read any of them... whats your typical approach like? Also im wondering... like in your third week, did you basically just go walking around a campus and stop girls as they were walking in a certain direction and talk to them? And after the convo you just go walking the other direction and talk to another? Just curious.
My gradual progress with women has gone something like... being scared to talk to them.... then, getting confident talking to them but being stuck in friend zone because not showing my interest, making my move, etc... then revamping my whole mindset with females to prevent getting stuck in friend zone.. Ive always been able to do approaches and been able to get phone numbers but the last recent problem I had was the constant flaking. id get the correct phone numbers... call and talk a few times and get flaked on in many different ways. Probably the last 20 numbers i got were flakes. Now that ive been home for winter break ive been doing alot of reading and learning about how to make women attracted to you and plan to go back to campus and put these to work. So basically im ALMOST to where i want to be which is being able to appraoch, number close, then get the date.. but im stuck at getting the number and no date. Maybe i should keep a journal like this as well. I wouldnt be as consistent and focused as you though so it wouldnt be as interesting to read.
Keep up the good work man!
Though if you want to practice getting better at building the girls interest level so that she actually wants to give you the number there are a few things you should probably work on. Neg hits and being c+f as you probably already know. During these approaches i havent read any of them... whats your typical approach like? Also im wondering... like in your third week, did you basically just go walking around a campus and stop girls as they were walking in a certain direction and talk to them? And after the convo you just go walking the other direction and talk to another? Just curious.
My gradual progress with women has gone something like... being scared to talk to them.... then, getting confident talking to them but being stuck in friend zone because not showing my interest, making my move, etc... then revamping my whole mindset with females to prevent getting stuck in friend zone.. Ive always been able to do approaches and been able to get phone numbers but the last recent problem I had was the constant flaking. id get the correct phone numbers... call and talk a few times and get flaked on in many different ways. Probably the last 20 numbers i got were flakes. Now that ive been home for winter break ive been doing alot of reading and learning about how to make women attracted to you and plan to go back to campus and put these to work. So basically im ALMOST to where i want to be which is being able to appraoch, number close, then get the date.. but im stuck at getting the number and no date. Maybe i should keep a journal like this as well. I wouldnt be as consistent and focused as you though so it wouldnt be as interesting to read.
Keep up the good work man!