You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Because the criminal justice system is so unfair against white people.Danger said:That part alone screams hate crime, and you can bet your a$$ that a white guy would be facing that charge were the roles reversed.
I've heard it a number of times. There were 300+ prosecuted incidents in 2009 for example.Danger said:When was the last time you heard of black on white violence prosecuted under hate crime laws? The only time it would be is if the "victim" was a woman.
Do you really think the media would have ignored a "pray to the white man" comment? Why do you suppose it was ignored in this case?
It does not matter if the guy that was assualted was selling drugs, the bouncer does not have the legal power to detain him, assault him and steal his money.cordoncordon said:Reports say the white guy was known to sell drugs inside the club and the bouncer was teaching him a lesson that they don't want that done at that establishment. IF that is the case, I have 0 problem with what the black guy did.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This ^^^^^.Danger said:I think you are confusing fear with intelligence. Just because someone is smart enough not to walk into a place where they are likely to get mugged, does not mean they are afraid of the cowards that live there.
Here is the 2009 report from the FBI. There were actually 668 victims of anti-White hate crimes in 2009.Danger said:Then we will have to disagree, I have never heard of it. And where did you get the 300+ 2009 figures?
I honestly doubt this is getting much attention at all, never mind because he's black. I never even saw it on any of the www media I check daily. The only reason I saw this is because it was posted here. You say it was the white/black angle, but if so, they certainly would have included the racist "pray to the brown man" statement. So I call BS, it was not played with that angle.
Again, this cowardly bastard assaulted, kidnapped, mugged and even sucker-punched a considerably smaller man, while telling the victim to "pray to the brown man". This is without a doubt a hate crime and should be treated as such.
I definitely agree with you here, but we all know these strip clubs are the places where the typical run of the mill authority hierarchy really isn't practiced that much.Alle_Gory said:if he really believed that the dude was slinging cocaine in his club then he should have gathered evidence and submitted to the police.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.