You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Because the criminal justice system is so unfair against white people.Danger said:That part alone screams hate crime, and you can bet your a$$ that a white guy would be facing that charge were the roles reversed.
I've heard it a number of times. There were 300+ prosecuted incidents in 2009 for example.Danger said:When was the last time you heard of black on white violence prosecuted under hate crime laws? The only time it would be is if the "victim" was a woman.
Do you really think the media would have ignored a "pray to the white man" comment? Why do you suppose it was ignored in this case?
It does not matter if the guy that was assualted was selling drugs, the bouncer does not have the legal power to detain him, assault him and steal his money.cordoncordon said:Reports say the white guy was known to sell drugs inside the club and the bouncer was teaching him a lesson that they don't want that done at that establishment. IF that is the case, I have 0 problem with what the black guy did.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This ^^^^^.Danger said:I think you are confusing fear with intelligence. Just because someone is smart enough not to walk into a place where they are likely to get mugged, does not mean they are afraid of the cowards that live there.
Here is the 2009 report from the FBI. There were actually 668 victims of anti-White hate crimes in 2009.Danger said:Then we will have to disagree, I have never heard of it. And where did you get the 300+ 2009 figures?
I honestly doubt this is getting much attention at all, never mind because he's black. I never even saw it on any of the www media I check daily. The only reason I saw this is because it was posted here. You say it was the white/black angle, but if so, they certainly would have included the racist "pray to the brown man" statement. So I call BS, it was not played with that angle.
Again, this cowardly bastard assaulted, kidnapped, mugged and even sucker-punched a considerably smaller man, while telling the victim to "pray to the brown man". This is without a doubt a hate crime and should be treated as such.
I definitely agree with you here, but we all know these strip clubs are the places where the typical run of the mill authority hierarchy really isn't practiced that much.Alle_Gory said:if he really believed that the dude was slinging cocaine in his club then he should have gathered evidence and submitted to the police.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.