"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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An example of Alpha idiot male vs nice guy

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cr1msonKing said:
I don't get how he isn't charged for race crimes or some other bs.
Because he isnt a white heterosexual man thus he failed to be eligible for hate/race/sex crimes,as long as he doesnt piss off any woman or gay he will be fine.
 

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Cr1msonKing said:
I don't get how he isn't charged for race crimes or some other bs.
Probably because there's no such thing as a race crime. It's not an offense to be a person of race, any race.

The bouncer did however:

Detectives said the 25-year-old victim was a Worcester resident. Police said the victim told them that the attack happened on May 25. The victim said he didn't report the incident because he was afraid the bouncers will come after him.

Police said they found that the bouncer, 35-year-old Easton Byfield, of Oxford, filed a report on May 25 stating that the victim assaulted him.

On Monday, Byfield would not answer questions about the incident, saying only, "No comment."

Detectives said they arrested Byfield last Friday and charged him with assault and battery, kidnapping, unarmed robbery and filing a false police report.

Read more: http://www.thebostonchannel.com/news/26934734/detail.html#ixzz1Ld6Oxt8p
http://www.thebostonchannel.com/r/26934734/detail.html
 

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The white guy is a nice guy? How can you say that? He may even be a drug dealer.

He's just a white guy intimidated by a bigger black guy. Which, to be honest, is about 90% of us. Which of course begs the question...can a white dude really be considered a "bad boy" in contemporary America by most women? A player, a cad, a stud, etc sure...but bad boy? I don't think so...
 

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FairShake said:
The white guy is a nice guy? How can you say that? He may even be a drug dealer.

He's just a white guy intimidated by a bigger black guy. Which, to be honest, is about 90% of us. Which of course begs the question...can a white dude really be considered a "bad boy" in contemporary America by most women? A player, a cad, a stud, etc sure...but bad boy? I don't think so...
Don't let yourself fooled from the fact that most convicted are black,there are so many white criminals out there too it's just that they have more money to pay good lawyers and avoid the prison.

The problem of white guys in america considered nice guys is them being taught so from their families, race and size have no part in niceness otherwise there would be no white marines.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Man if you deal drugs then you have to carry a gun, and when some stupid fag gets you like that you need to take him out on his way home. He knew it when he said 'and dont be trying to assualt me on my way out', he was scared. The white guy couldnt do much against the twice his size niger but there should be repercussions for doing that lol.

Luckily i am involved in academic and aristocratic circles, but even i know thats not how you handle your business, letting someone shlt on you and walk away free.
 

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Reports say the white guy was known to sell drugs inside the club and the bouncer was teaching him a lesson that they don't want that done at that establishment. IF that is the case, I have 0 problem with what the black guy did. And I'm a white guy myself.
 

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Reports say the white guy was known to sell drugs inside the club and the bouncer was teaching him a lesson that they don't want that done at that establishment. IF that is the case, I have 0 problem with what the black guy did. And I'm a white guy myself.
No that's just the excuse the bouncer was using to steal all of his sh!t. Either way if a white bouncer locked up a black drug dealer and made him pray to the white god like this guy made the white guy pray to a brown guy I assure you it would be all over mainstream news
 

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Strelok said:
The problem of white guys in america considered nice guys is them being taught so from their families, race and size have no part in niceness otherwise there would be no white marines.
You act like that's a bad thing! :confused:

Anyway race and size do play a part. Put a couple of White Marines in an inner city party and they will USUALLY be more scared and wary than a couple Black thugs in a Marine party. That's just how it is, alot of White people are just scared of Black people and the White "bad boy" doesn't have much street cred. While there are some they will never have the same effect on our generation.
 

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FairShake said:
You act like that's a bad thing! :confused:

Anyway race and size do play a part. Put a couple of White Marines in an inner city party and they will USUALLY be more scared and wary than a couple Black thugs in a Marine party. That's just how it is, alot of White people are just scared of Black people and the White "bad boy" doesn't have much street cred. While there are some they will never have the same effect on our generation.
It's not a bad thing at all,I wish around me all the men were nice guys,my job would be easier and my sleep deeper and I could afford being a good guy myself but the presence of a single bad guy require the good guys to stop being good,hope I explained myself.

What I meant was that size and race has no part in whos bad and whos good,black people get kicked often in some parts in europe and run like they do faster than the olympic games when they see some bad guy with a shaved head and a bomber jackets,not professional nazis but guys who hadnt have the luck to be wealthy as you guys and are pissed off from people doing their work for lower pay.
They are not afraid of black people,not at all.

There's no change in hell a black guy walks around Minsk or Kiev play the "alpha male" on girls and find no trouble like they would do somewhere else.
Everything depends on the way people is grown from their families and culture,if you're told violence is fine and even necessary and you're incouraged to do so you wont be mr nice guy.
What you say is true only in the place where there are certain factors like culture and media and economy to reinforce certain points,that's why its hard to give a judment about an entire race.

About what you say about marines,well nobody would be afraid in a marine party since they don't usually kill anyone outseide warfare.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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FairShake said:
The white guy is a nice guy? How can you say that? He may even be a drug dealer.

He's just a white guy intimidated by a bigger black guy. Which, to be honest, is about 90% of us. Which of course begs the question...can a white dude really be considered a "bad boy" in contemporary America by most women? A player, a cad, a stud, etc sure...but bad boy? I don't think so...
That's why you better get your Arse down to the Gym and start throwin some weight around Amigo....Else you get your arse whipped.
 

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john siegal said:
That's why you better get your Arse down to the Gym and start throwin some weight around Amigo....Else you get your arse whipped.
It's not a matter of brute force. We're successful as humans because of intelligence (and fine motor skills), not because of size and strength.

Even if he was much larger and more intimidating that wouldn't have stopped the douchebag bouncer from filling false police report and lying to the cops.
 

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Hey...Dipchit!

You can say that about EVERY RACE!

You are a Coward!

You see a Crime...and make excuses. (don't tell us arsehole....you are Law Student...Right?)

bah ahahhahah!

Man...i would not want to have you on my side in a Fight (arsehole). You are the EXACT type of Jerkoff who would run from enemy Fire in a Battle. Fvckin white Trash Loser!

Strelok said:
Don't let yourself fooled from the fact that most convicted are black,there are so many white criminals out there too it's just that they have more money to pay good lawyers and avoid the prison.

The problem of white guys in america considered nice guys is them being taught so from their families, race and size have no part in niceness otherwise there would be no white marines.
 

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Bha ahh ahahha!

If you know someone is selling drugs in your club...you set them up for a Sting. You call your Cop buddies (all strip club owners know cops...they are patrons)...and you bust that Arsehole selling drugs. And then you squeeze him for info on his suppliers...and work your way up the ladder.

This Nigga deserves to get his TEETH and HEAD Bashed in with a 30 oz Louieville Slugger.

Fvckin Loser White Guys defending the Actions of some Thug Nigga?

You are a Disgrace to your Parents...and all those who stand for justice!

You are an Idiot!

cordoncordon said:
Reports say the white guy was known to sell drugs inside the club and the bouncer was teaching him a lesson that they don't want that done at that establishment. IF that is the case, I have 0 problem with what the black guy did. And I'm a white guy myself.
 

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BTW...all you White Favvgots DEFENDING this Nigga Thug.

There were no drugs found...this Arsehole was just bullying some dude he THOUGHT was selling.

Kid does not look like a dealer from here...and if he did have some dope, he was probably using it himself or giving it to the Hoe's at the Club.

Wake up you White Favvgots!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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john siegal said:
Hey...Dipchit!

You can say that about EVERY RACE!

You are a Coward!

You see a Crime...and make excuses. (don't tell us arsehole....you are Law Student...Right?)

bah ahahhahah!

Man...i would not want to have you on my side in a Fight (arsehole). You are the EXACT type of Jerkoff who would run from enemy Fire in a Battle. Fvckin white Trash Loser!
It seems cosmo magazine psycology is getting popular in this forum,you guys should stop reading moms magazines,hell we have new profilers popping out everyday here.

And the ad personam insults too are a must for your character,why don't you just fill an application for some b movie and finally be noticed?
Look you can be the guy from 06.55 to 07.10 in the upcoming remake of this movie http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JGb10AGw_H0

However if you fail to get the role,please go back to the kindergarden and don't annoy the other kids anymore.
 

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john siegal said:
That's why you better get your Arse down to the Gym and start throwin some weight around Amigo....Else you get your arse whipped.
Actually I'm a former boxer and current boxing coach. I can handle myself in a fight if needed...although it usually isn't because I avoid them. But if you think getting cut is what's needed on the street I guess you didn't live there. I grew up in the ghetto and black people are off. Not all of them of course, but at a certain age alot of the guys are. Even if you whip their ass they come back with friends or a gun. White people's arms-length avoidance of young black males is probably pretty much the safe thing to do. It's a sh!tty thing to do for the good black males btw but also the safe thing to do!

I don't think you know marines very well.
I know a couple very well and their friends to a certain extent. They are actually black and Puerto Rican marines no less. They grew up with me and they avoid certain streets and bars in our old neighborhood. They would probably get hurt there just like anyone else without the street mentality. They aren't walking around Kensington with bullet-proof flak jackets and M-16s!
 

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Strelok said:
There's no change in hell a black guy walks around Minsk or Kiev play the "alpha male" on girls and find no trouble like they would do somewhere else.
To be fair, most white people are pretty ashamed of Eastern Europe. We barely consider them white. I have the same arm's length dealings with them as i do young black dudes. Maybe even lengthier because Ukranians, Belorussians, and their like are fvcking sneaky as well as mean.

Nature and nurture. Black ghettos and Eastern European wastelands breed a fvcked in the head type of person that even our scummiest trailer parks don't. When I was 16 and could first afford to move out I went to a scummy trailer park full of meth heads and broken down drunken white people in Bensalem Pennsylvania. You don't know how relieved I was !
 

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FairShake said:
To be fair, most white people are pretty ashamed of Eastern Europe. We barely consider them white. I have the same arm's length dealings with them as i do young black dudes. Maybe even lengthier because Ukranians, Belorussians, and their like are fvcking sneaky as well as mean.

Nature and nurture. Black ghettos and Eastern European wastelands breed a fvcked in the head type of person that even our scummiest trailer parks don't. When I was 16 and could first afford to move out I went to a scummy trailer park full of meth heads and broken down drunken white people in Bensalem Pennsylvania. You don't know how relieved I was !
I didnt start a contest about whos more scum,that line was a reply to "90% of white guys are afraid of black guys" and the meaning was that the afraid one is that because he has been grown to be non violent and nice from his familty and never had any pressure to be aggressive from his environment so he simply lack that part of himself.
That same stereotypical nerdy white guy would be totally different if grown up in Germany during the war where they forced kid to take part in military traning and brainwashed into
thinking that the strongest had the duty to submitt the weaker.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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