Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Because the criminal justice system is so unfair against white people.Danger said:That part alone screams hate crime, and you can bet your a$$ that a white guy would be facing that charge were the roles reversed.
I've heard it a number of times. There were 300+ prosecuted incidents in 2009 for example.Danger said:When was the last time you heard of black on white violence prosecuted under hate crime laws? The only time it would be is if the "victim" was a woman.
Do you really think the media would have ignored a "pray to the white man" comment? Why do you suppose it was ignored in this case?
It does not matter if the guy that was assualted was selling drugs, the bouncer does not have the legal power to detain him, assault him and steal his money.cordoncordon said:Reports say the white guy was known to sell drugs inside the club and the bouncer was teaching him a lesson that they don't want that done at that establishment. IF that is the case, I have 0 problem with what the black guy did.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This ^^^^^.Danger said:I think you are confusing fear with intelligence. Just because someone is smart enough not to walk into a place where they are likely to get mugged, does not mean they are afraid of the cowards that live there.
Here is the 2009 report from the FBI. There were actually 668 victims of anti-White hate crimes in 2009.Danger said:Then we will have to disagree, I have never heard of it. And where did you get the 300+ 2009 figures?
I honestly doubt this is getting much attention at all, never mind because he's black. I never even saw it on any of the www media I check daily. The only reason I saw this is because it was posted here. You say it was the white/black angle, but if so, they certainly would have included the racist "pray to the brown man" statement. So I call BS, it was not played with that angle.
Again, this cowardly bastard assaulted, kidnapped, mugged and even sucker-punched a considerably smaller man, while telling the victim to "pray to the brown man". This is without a doubt a hate crime and should be treated as such.
I definitely agree with you here, but we all know these strip clubs are the places where the typical run of the mill authority hierarchy really isn't practiced that much.Alle_Gory said:if he really believed that the dude was slinging cocaine in his club then he should have gathered evidence and submitted to the police.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.