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The above has absolutely nothing to do with why an age icon is an EXCELLENT idea.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
An "Age" icon
- Thread starter Donjuanpablo
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Ok no need for melodramatics, Im sure you wouldnt be "forced" to disclose your age, hopefully if it was implemented it would be optional like your location.
And if it was optional i dont think the point of it would be gone, most people in these forums seem to be honest, well adjusted people that dont seem to care much if someone can see there statistics, and probably wouldnt think showing there age is some kind of massive traumatic issue.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
this is optional already. go to some people's profile's and their b-day might be there and possibly their age.
example:
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/member.php?s=&action=getinfo&userid=8518
another example w/out it:
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/member.php?s=&action=getinfo&userid=10603
example:
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/member.php?s=&action=getinfo&userid=8518
another example w/out it:
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/member.php?s=&action=getinfo&userid=10603
Apollo
Senior Don Juan
Demon, why are you so against this idea?
I, for one, am against this idea because I think there might be better ways to acheive the same goal.
People are going to be lying about their age left and right. It would be too easy to circumvent.
Furthermore, age is just a number and not always indicative of maturity. Many 25-year-olds act like 15-year-olds.
Like I said, if you're going to implement it, make it OPTIONAL.
People are going to be lying about their age left and right. It would be too easy to circumvent.
Furthermore, age is just a number and not always indicative of maturity. Many 25-year-olds act like 15-year-olds.
Like I said, if you're going to implement it, make it OPTIONAL.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
It is optional. Hell if you want to know how old someone is, look in their posts. People invariably make some reference to it.
Not sure why Demon is so against it. It is kind of womanly to worry so much about your age.
Not sure why Demon is so against it. It is kind of womanly to worry so much about your age.
SoSuave.com
Administrator
Implemented and optional.
Go to your User CP. Click on Edit Profile, and fill in the Age field.
Go to your User CP. Click on Edit Profile, and fill in the Age field.
Donjuanpablo
Master Don Juan
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And I can see that you're the first to do that. 24? Pffft, didnt you say in a thread last year that you were "fresh out of high school", looking on how to pick up college chicks for the first time?
Donjuanpablo
Master Don Juan
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- 44
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Or maybe you've forgotten this one???
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&postid=138745#post138745
The Edge 'Some have it, and some don't'
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&postid=138745#post138745
The Edge 'Some have it, and some don't'
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
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- Jan 5, 2002
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- Location
- Hiding in Penkitten's Linen Closet
BUSTED. That explains a lot, actually.
Mack Of All Trades
Master Don Juan
Demon, what are you some kind of wierdo?
No need to lie about your age. Seems like the edge got you good....
No need to lie about your age. Seems like the edge got you good....
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.