"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AMOGing and PHYSICAL violence (fight threats)

jdawgmcb

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Lets say for example that you are in set; and you are simply AMOGing the target successfully, lowering his value and raising yours...

What happens when he calls you out for a fight after the set is over or you see them again?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SharinganUser

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Don't fight unless you have to. But if you gotta fight, win.

Fighting will just show the girl that you are insecure.
 

Groovy

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Why the hell do you want to proove higher value? Focus on other stuff, like HAVING FUN. The interaction is best when it's enjoyed by all... Someone who can make a cool, fun convo with everyone, that's the kind of guy girls want! ;) Take yourself as an example, do you like people amoging you? (or should I say annoying you?) A different thing thing is showing you know how to have fun AND displaying higher value, while not making the other guy think you're an ass- charisma!

So stay away from fights, make friends! :up: If you make the other guy hate you so much he wants to beat you up, YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG. Damn, is it THAT complicated? :D

Another thing is that if you really were just joking around and the other guy happens to be tempered- I would prefer saying to him, hey man, take it easy, I was just joking around! Don't take it the wrong way. (You can't say that of course :D ). Or if it's really uncalled for, (and you're bigger then him :D ) just say, "Wow you're quite an angry person aren't you?" and leave it like that. and a important reminder is: don't loose your cool!
 

Aragon034

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i'll usually say something like "Dude, Chill, are you seeing yourself right now?" appealing to their common sense. This has worked for me so far.
 

HandyAndy

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Why fight when you can shoot him in the face?

Just kidding, yeah but dont fight man, let him know hes out of place and taking things out of proportion, this also means that if he gets mad/wants to start a fight hes pretty damn insecure and/or jealous
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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WaRpEd

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Hit him with a bar stool.

Haha, no don't do that.

A fight could lead to.

-It could destroy what you were working on with the female(s) at hand (although every woman is different, I know women who would become extremly horny over a fight for them)
-General bad karma.
-Probably will kicked out of bar/ club/ or wherever.
-Probably will get into legal trouble.
-You never know what the other guy is carrying, you could get shot, stabbed, whatever.

The list goes on. A fight goes beyond the game, that's a completly different entity all together.

But if you wanna fight, or the other guy is allready swinging a punch at you...what can ya do?
 
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