"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
AMOGing and PHYSICAL violence (fight threats)
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SharinganUser
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Fighting will just show the girl that you are insecure.
Take yourself as an example, do you like people amoging you? (or should I say annoying you?) A different thing thing is showing you know how to have fun AND displaying higher value, while not making the other guy think you're an ass- charisma! So stay away from fights, make friends!
If you make the other guy hate you so much he wants to beat you up, YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG. Damn, is it THAT complicated? Another thing is that if you really were just joking around and the other guy happens to be tempered- I would prefer saying to him, hey man, take it easy, I was just joking around! Don't take it the wrong way. (You can't say that of course
). Or if it's really uncalled for, (and you're bigger then him ) just say, "Wow you're quite an angry person aren't you?" and leave it like that. and a important reminder is: don't loose your cool!Just kidding, yeah but dont fight man, let him know hes out of place and taking things out of proportion, this also means that if he gets mad/wants to start a fight hes pretty damn insecure and/or jealous
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
Haha, no don't do that.
A fight could lead to.
-It could destroy what you were working on with the female(s) at hand (although every woman is different, I know women who would become extremly horny over a fight for them)
-General bad karma.
-Probably will kicked out of bar/ club/ or wherever.
-Probably will get into legal trouble.
-You never know what the other guy is carrying, you could get shot, stabbed, whatever.
The list goes on. A fight goes beyond the game, that's a completly different entity all together.
But if you wanna fight, or the other guy is allready swinging a punch at you...what can ya do?