"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
AMOGing and PHYSICAL violence (fight threats)
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SharinganUser
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Fighting will just show the girl that you are insecure.
Take yourself as an example, do you like people amoging you? (or should I say annoying you?) A different thing thing is showing you know how to have fun AND displaying higher value, while not making the other guy think you're an ass- charisma! So stay away from fights, make friends!
If you make the other guy hate you so much he wants to beat you up, YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG. Damn, is it THAT complicated? Another thing is that if you really were just joking around and the other guy happens to be tempered- I would prefer saying to him, hey man, take it easy, I was just joking around! Don't take it the wrong way. (You can't say that of course
). Or if it's really uncalled for, (and you're bigger then him ) just say, "Wow you're quite an angry person aren't you?" and leave it like that. and a important reminder is: don't loose your cool!Just kidding, yeah but dont fight man, let him know hes out of place and taking things out of proportion, this also means that if he gets mad/wants to start a fight hes pretty damn insecure and/or jealous
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
Haha, no don't do that.
A fight could lead to.
-It could destroy what you were working on with the female(s) at hand (although every woman is different, I know women who would become extremly horny over a fight for them)
-General bad karma.
-Probably will kicked out of bar/ club/ or wherever.
-Probably will get into legal trouble.
-You never know what the other guy is carrying, you could get shot, stabbed, whatever.
The list goes on. A fight goes beyond the game, that's a completly different entity all together.
But if you wanna fight, or the other guy is allready swinging a punch at you...what can ya do?