"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Just the other day was out, approaching girls, one of the guy friends of the girl comes along and just nails eveyrthing i say, making me feel like the world's biggest dumbass not only because he was so fast with his lines but because the girls laughed at his lines too...before he came they were laughing with me and were down for things....


Now I am all down the next day after a long night because of what happend..any advice..suggestions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thought about it....i doubt the girls would like me if they saw me chop off their friends ballz
 
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Never compete in a p1ssing contest. He was using you to score points with the girls and essentially c0ckblocking you.

You should have ignored the guy and pretended he wasn't even there, its the girls you are after.

If this guy would continue being a d1ck, tell the girls it was nice to meet them and walk away with a smile on your face never acknowledging your enemy and go approach other girls. If one of the girls were trully interested in you they would eventually chase you down.
 
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Originally posted by ak5
thought about it....i doubt the girls would like me if they saw me chop off their friends ballz
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I didnt say anything about letting them watch!

Loser!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yea, I did ignore him but the girls didnt, they were still listening to him because he's their friend...

I guess I didnt completely capture their interest...or didnt gain enough rapport for them to tell their friend to stfu.
 
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If he did that to me I wouldve said something like "wow, you must feel like a big man, please mister dont take my lunch money today!"
 
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and what would you do if he said you were a dumbass and for everyhting you said he said thats dumb or just made it lookl ike everything you said/did or have done was dumb
 
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With or without lightsaber?

I'd advise you to say something like "oh, you got jokes, huh?" or, "There's no use in strutting for the girls..." Ignore him, then proceed talking up the girls. If he persists, cut off his arm, then tell the girls "Nice to meet you" and bounce to the next set.

No use seeing who the bigger man is, let him have his ego stroke.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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hahaha. are you sure he wasnt from this site??? i think a lot of people know about this site now. i got people giving me advice word for word that i know this site has! talking about how girls just love attention and blah blah blah...and im like "oooohh....he must go on sosuave.net!"
 
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Originally posted by ak5
Just the other day was out, approaching girls, one of the guy friends of the girl comes along and just nails eveyrthing i say, making me feel like the world's biggest dumbass not only because he was so fast with his lines but because the girls laughed at his lines too...before he came they were laughing with me and were down for things....


Now I am all down the next day after a long night because of what happend..any advice..suggestions?
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Invite this fvcker out....get drunk...beat the living shyt out of him...blame it on the alcohol....works everytime for me;)
 
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