"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just the other day was out, approaching girls, one of the guy friends of the girl comes along and just nails eveyrthing i say, making me feel like the world's biggest dumbass not only because he was so fast with his lines but because the girls laughed at his lines too...before he came they were laughing with me and were down for things....


Now I am all down the next day after a long night because of what happend..any advice..suggestions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thought about it....i doubt the girls would like me if they saw me chop off their friends ballz
 

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Never compete in a p1ssing contest. He was using you to score points with the girls and essentially c0ckblocking you.

You should have ignored the guy and pretended he wasn't even there, its the girls you are after.

If this guy would continue being a d1ck, tell the girls it was nice to meet them and walk away with a smile on your face never acknowledging your enemy and go approach other girls. If one of the girls were trully interested in you they would eventually chase you down.
 

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Originally posted by ak5
thought about it....i doubt the girls would like me if they saw me chop off their friends ballz
I didnt say anything about letting them watch!

Loser!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yea, I did ignore him but the girls didnt, they were still listening to him because he's their friend...

I guess I didnt completely capture their interest...or didnt gain enough rapport for them to tell their friend to stfu.
 

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If he did that to me I wouldve said something like "wow, you must feel like a big man, please mister dont take my lunch money today!"
 

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and what would you do if he said you were a dumbass and for everyhting you said he said thats dumb or just made it lookl ike everything you said/did or have done was dumb
 

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With or without lightsaber?

I'd advise you to say something like "oh, you got jokes, huh?" or, "There's no use in strutting for the girls..." Ignore him, then proceed talking up the girls. If he persists, cut off his arm, then tell the girls "Nice to meet you" and bounce to the next set.

No use seeing who the bigger man is, let him have his ego stroke.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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hahaha. are you sure he wasnt from this site??? i think a lot of people know about this site now. i got people giving me advice word for word that i know this site has! talking about how girls just love attention and blah blah blah...and im like "oooohh....he must go on sosuave.net!"
 

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Originally posted by ak5
Just the other day was out, approaching girls, one of the guy friends of the girl comes along and just nails eveyrthing i say, making me feel like the world's biggest dumbass not only because he was so fast with his lines but because the girls laughed at his lines too...before he came they were laughing with me and were down for things....


Now I am all down the next day after a long night because of what happend..any advice..suggestions?

Invite this fvcker out....get drunk...beat the living shyt out of him...blame it on the alcohol....works everytime for me;)
 
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