"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just the other day was out, approaching girls, one of the guy friends of the girl comes along and just nails eveyrthing i say, making me feel like the world's biggest dumbass not only because he was so fast with his lines but because the girls laughed at his lines too...before he came they were laughing with me and were down for things....


Now I am all down the next day after a long night because of what happend..any advice..suggestions?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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thought about it....i doubt the girls would like me if they saw me chop off their friends ballz
 
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Never compete in a p1ssing contest. He was using you to score points with the girls and essentially c0ckblocking you.

You should have ignored the guy and pretended he wasn't even there, its the girls you are after.

If this guy would continue being a d1ck, tell the girls it was nice to meet them and walk away with a smile on your face never acknowledging your enemy and go approach other girls. If one of the girls were trully interested in you they would eventually chase you down.
 
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Originally posted by ak5
thought about it....i doubt the girls would like me if they saw me chop off their friends ballz
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I didnt say anything about letting them watch!

Loser!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yea, I did ignore him but the girls didnt, they were still listening to him because he's their friend...

I guess I didnt completely capture their interest...or didnt gain enough rapport for them to tell their friend to stfu.
 
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If he did that to me I wouldve said something like "wow, you must feel like a big man, please mister dont take my lunch money today!"
 
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and what would you do if he said you were a dumbass and for everyhting you said he said thats dumb or just made it lookl ike everything you said/did or have done was dumb
 
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With or without lightsaber?

I'd advise you to say something like "oh, you got jokes, huh?" or, "There's no use in strutting for the girls..." Ignore him, then proceed talking up the girls. If he persists, cut off his arm, then tell the girls "Nice to meet you" and bounce to the next set.

No use seeing who the bigger man is, let him have his ego stroke.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hahaha. are you sure he wasnt from this site??? i think a lot of people know about this site now. i got people giving me advice word for word that i know this site has! talking about how girls just love attention and blah blah blah...and im like "oooohh....he must go on sosuave.net!"
 
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Originally posted by ak5
Just the other day was out, approaching girls, one of the guy friends of the girl comes along and just nails eveyrthing i say, making me feel like the world's biggest dumbass not only because he was so fast with his lines but because the girls laughed at his lines too...before he came they were laughing with me and were down for things....


Now I am all down the next day after a long night because of what happend..any advice..suggestions?
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Invite this fvcker out....get drunk...beat the living shyt out of him...blame it on the alcohol....works everytime for me;)
 
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