"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yo'Mama

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This is my first time in the US where I've actually been looking to meet girls.

Thoughts:

1. American women don't seem any worse or any better than women anywhere else (and I've lived in a few different places).

2. Your country has a massive (pun intended) obesity problem. It's simply disgusting. I'm from the UK which isn't too far behind although I don't live there anymore.

3. This is a great country. I came here with all the usual prejudices that Brits have but it's just been awesome.

I know 2 and 3 don't really relate to women but wanted to throw them in there.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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American women are ****, just like I'm sure the US influenced UK women are. It's just westernized feminized culture. Most US women are good for a quick pump and dump, but not much else. There are rare ones, that are single, but liek I said rare. And are single cause they are young(like 20) and still working on their future. If a women is older, she is single, cause she isn't worth a thing. Usually. But there will be a few older ones who just don't get out so much, those can be gems. Rare as well. For me the funnest women to interact with a culturally different women. I dated a Turkish girl, and she was so different than girls here, and she was so hot! I kinda screwed it up though. But then again, she wasn't going to stay here.

With your accent you would have an advantage though, women will probably love it, use it to your advantage, just don't expect anything more than short term./
 

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Borknagar.

I agree with you to be honest that the quality is low. It's just everywhere else seems to be as bad!

Well I haven't lived everywhere I suppose.

One thing I can say for sure though is don't entertain the idea of Asian women being better. They're worse if anything (at least not fat though).
 

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Depends, I don't have a whole lot of experience with them, my bud Layne is an expert though, he's 40 and Korean, and ****s 20 some year olds. I guess it might depend on if they are westernized or not. As long as they are westernized, color/race doesn't mean ****.
 

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I have some experience with Koreans but more with Chinese/Japanese. There are some lovely ones but they can be so calculating and devious.

Also there are many that will be all sweetness and light until marriage and then BOOM!

I'm going by personal experiences and looking at a lot of friends' situations.

At least American women speak English!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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And going out with a Japanese girl is like dating an overgrown child with particularly abundant pubic hair.
 
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